How to Gift Sex Toys to Your Friends This Christmas Holiday - Par Femme

by Par Femme

They say the best gifts are the things you wouldn’t necessarily buy for yourself. So why not give the gift of self pleasure in the form of a silicone-ensconced tool whose sole purpose is to enhance the sex life (and overall health and well-being) of its recipient?

Sex toys are gifts that keep on giving. Both in the obvious sense, and in that they encourage sex positivity and female pleasure. They can be a non-awkward way to start an honest dialogue with friends about a subject that has remained largely taboo for too long. Also, like all good gifts, they're fun!

Below, the best presents to give the people you really like this season (yourself included). There’s a toy out there for everyone...

The Beginner
If she's not yet acquainted with the world of adult toys, it's best to guide her gently into it with an unobtrusive pleasure enhancer. Start with a bullet. The Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator is a petite and discreet (but still powerful) entry-level toy. Also recommended, the whisper-quiet Svakom Echo Clitoral Vibrator, which delivers deep, rumbly vibrations across five different modes.

The Epicurean
Is she a purveyor of the finer things in life? If so, might we suggest the Svakom Keri Clitoral Vibrator, which definitely qualifies for bedside table placement, so nice it is, perhaps next to a candle, a thriving plant, some other objets d'art... The device itself is not intimidating or flashy—it's a sleek, millennial-pink toy coated in soft (very soft) silicone. Simply exquisite. Chef's kiss emoji.

The Couple
The We-Vibe Sync Couples Vibrator is a favourite among those who are in some way betrothed. The C-shaped vibrator designed for both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, and can be controlled by via smartphone app or remote control. Also great for duos is the Dame Eva II Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator, which provides hands-free stimulation—meaning those hands are available for other things.

The Adventurer
The Svakom Nymph Vibrator is perfect for anyone with an adventurous spirit. At one end, a rounded head that offers intensity; at the other, three rotating “fingertips”. Meanwhile the Doxy Number 3 Wand is a go-anywhere power massager that combines the power of the original Doxy Massager and the luxurious body of the Die Cast all in a smaller size, perfect for travel.



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